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Ways to end relationship

Ways to end relationship

Most people would like to be the one who puts an end to a bad relationship rather than being dumped by their loved one. But the fact is that, even if you want to end your relationship, it’s not easy to tell someone that it’s over.  That’s right, essentially breaking up is a lose-lose situation.  Breaking up with your partner may be necessary at some point but let it have the dignity that your relationship did. Ending a relationship is all the more difficult when it is not by mutual consent. It can turn into a situation filled with anger, sadness, confusion and frustration and therefore must be handled with care.

These are the best practices in order to end a relationship in a cordial manner:

Stay confident

The moment you decide to break up with somebody, you have to realize that it implies that a conversation to resolve issues is not even a possibility.  If it is a possibility for you, maybe you should think of approaching your talk with your spouse as more of a relationship-counseling sort of way, instead of a break up.  Generally speaking, break ups do not get reversed and the relationship will be unsalvageable.

Never accuse

First and foremost, never blame your partner while ending a relationship. People break up for various reasons. Often, the break up occurs because the relationship didn’t work out. Remember, it takes two to make a relationship work.  You have to realize that the experiences in your relationships, and issues that came up did so to teach you a lesson.

Stay neutral

The best place to have the talk is a private, neutral setting where the two of you will have the privacy to freely express yourselves and show your emotions. Restaurants and other public places are generally a bad idea. The last thing you want is your partner weeping, yelling or calling you names in front of a live audience and find the perfect setting for announcing your intention.

Be honest

Remind your partner that you’ll never forget the positive qualities in your relationship, but emphasize that you are ready to move on with your life. If you leave a person with respect you will always have their respect. Do for them as you would have them do for you is a very good rule of thumb to guide you through an unpleasant and unhappy time.

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