Monthly Archives March 2017

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Top signs to know that your relationship is not working out

It is important to know if your relationship in in jeopardy. When things are going right between you and your partner, you can feel it. You are happy when you are together; you support each other; you think and talk about each other when you are not together.

Wrong focus

When you two talk about how things are going between you, do you seem to always end up trying to address problems? If so, your relationship might be in trouble. This is not to say that you should not address relational obstacles. Even the healthiest relationships face conflict and struggle from time to time. And, of course, you two should try to resolve whatever difficulties you face together...

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Best misconceptions about love to know about

Many people view love as a two-way street, with each person receiving affection in proportion to what’s been given out. It’s true that love often breeds love in return, but expecting a measured response for each gesture of affection is unrealistic. Worse, it leads to score keeping and the constant feeling that one is doing either too much or too little.

The reality is more like a series of candles, each lighting the others. Some candles are large, some are small. One person’s 80% may glow dimmer than someone else’s 20%. Sometimes we pour love in a constant stream toward someone who is not yet able to give it back. Try to give 60%, 70%, or even 100% in every relationship you are part of. You never know which candle may be just a few seconds away from sparking.

We all make sacrifices...

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